The Best Signs for You!
may be relieved & refreshed by my thoughts on this issue!
I believe in relating. It's intimate, comforting. We mirror
the other's blind spots, grow and strengthen together, live
longer. We take care of each other and have a better quality
of life. We share, the whole is greater than the sum of the
parts. I like that math! So let's invest wisely….
There are the traditional approved combos - fire with air, earth
with water. That means fiery Aries, Leo and Sagittarius with
themselves or airy Gemini, Libra, Aquarius. Or earthy Taurus,
Virgo, Capricorn with themselves or watery Cancer, Scorpio,
Pisces. That would be fine if that were all there is in your
chart! Or theirs!
chart is a combination of signs. Let's say your sun sign is
earthy Virgo, your Moon is fiery Aries. That combination isn't
considered easy in your chart, let alone mixed with someone
else's! The same effect ripples out to them. Let's say they
are a 'good' sign for you… earthy Capricorn. Not good with your
fiery moon! None of the earth or water signs is good with that
Aries. It's the way it is.
what to do?! Look for an overall combination that is sweet.
A person who also
has that Virgo/Aries combination in their chart would understand.
Make sure the vitals are taken care of. We make sure the sensitive
Moon is comforted. We get the communication Mercurys in empathy.
We try to keep Mars from being in an irritable combination and
Saturn from being too stern.
aspects are simply difficult. All the rest of a comparison may
be wonderful, but that one aspect may be the reason one partner
leaves. Sometimes there are just too many difficult aspects
no matter how informed you are, how much counseling you have
done, how mature you are. Nothing wrong with the people, they
are just more different than is fun. Often, compatibility is
not the issue, understanding is everything. Be good to each
looking for those traditional Sun Sign combinations simply isn't
get to know the new person a little. Often you will know if
you are compatible in two to three encounters. I would want
to see their chart right away and save time! Matters of the
heart are too important to leave to chance and wishful thinking,
banking on your perseverance, your flexibility or maturity or…
to bring you through. Nor is it fair to play with another's
God, Great Spirit sometimes takes over!!!
Some relationships have special qualities related to past life
connections or Karma that make for a different assessment than
by the standard rules of compatibility. Relationships are learning
places, a part of your soul's growth, along the Great Path,
the Starry Way. Each person gifts our path; let them give their
gift! The soul knows its perfect choices. Each of us is on our
soul's very own timing, doing the best we can. May not look
like it right now, but in time we usually see the why of it.
Sometimes you have to stand pretty far back to get perspective.
And I'm not saying to be a victim. Your wisdom and strengthening,
practice and power, is to choose whom to be with and how long
being in that relationship makes sense.
the very big picture, I think some people are meant to be with
the same partner in harmony for a long time and others aren't.
The latter seem to learn their fill with one person, sometimes
intensely so, sometimes many years, then go to the next relationship
and learn that piece. Perhaps they pay off a karmic debt, help
someone through a life passage. Undoubtedly, some people need
to learn harmony. And they keep trying, each relationship a
stage along the way. Often, even if the reading indicates a
difficult relationship, they do it anyway until it's done! I'm
definitely not encouraging irresponsibility or unkindness. But,
who can know what another soul's walk is? No judgments.
too, makes for a different assessment than the standard rules
of 'compatibility.' I think 'compatibility' is part a matter
of maturity, part who we're capable of relating with, though
generally those old astrology rules really work! I think another
facet of 'compatibility' is that each person's chart is so unique
that I want to throw the old concepts of 'compatibility' out
the window! For example, some Aquarius people just don't want
those ooey gooey romantic love combinations. They need 'space',
don't just hug them because you want to. Have respect and ask
first! I don't know if there are stats, but I thought I heard
Scorpios are the most likely to marry their own sign. Makes
sense to me. That's a sign with a soft underbelly and they don't
always want to talk a lot. They can be hard drivers in public
but want to rest at home. Takes one to know one!
love a challenging relationship, would be BORED without it!
Or maybe it takes that volume of energy to break through their
defenses! Go figure. Each of you is unique. Differences can
be celebrated and delegated! Thank God you don't have to do
everything yourself! Astrology is so complex that I think we
do it, and yourself, an injustice to think there is a 'best
sign for you!' If you are comfortable with this thinking, let
me work for you.
pray you take the very best care of yourselves and each other,
Precious Ones. Stay in your hearts. Thank each other every day.
What we are grateful for grows.
Thank you for Your Trust ~
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